Have you ever wondered how some women stay so oblivious to men that were cheating on them, even for years and years? Often the signs are there, but they simply don’t know what to look for. Here are five common signs that your partner is being unfaithful.

1. His Sexual Activity Changes

He may be suddenly very active in the bedroom, or may show little interest in you. When a man is cheating, his sexual energy changes; he may be more enthused about sex which is why he may be more enthused about time spent with you, or he may be so involved in his new partner that he has little energy for you. As unfortunate as it sounds, he may also be so attracted to his new partner that he has no interest in you any longer.

2. He Begins Taking a Strong Interest in His Appearance

New clothes, new cologne, and a new workout routine may be a signal that he’s sprucing himself up for someone else. When you’re with someone new, you still want to make a good impression on them, so men often become very concerned with their appearance when they begin or want to begin an affair.

3. He’s Suddenly Very Secretive

Hanging up the phone abruptly when you walk in the room, taking calls in another room, shutting off the computer when he sees you approaching; these are all signs that he may be hiding something from you. He may also start spending money without telling you where it’s going, and may open a new bank account to keep you from finding out about his spending habits.

4. He’s Not Where He’s Supposed to Be

You call his office when he says he’s working late and he left hours ago. He said he had lunch with his friend last week but when you run into that friend, he knows nothing about it. When your man is not where he says he is or claims to be, this is a common sign that he’s someplace he shouldn’t be!

5. You Begin Getting Strange Phone Calls

When someone cheats, it’s not unusual for their mistress to be curious about their spouse or family. They may call your phone just to hear your voice; they may also call to see if you’re in the home and if it’s safe to call your husband or boyfriend.

None of these changes are in of themselves absolute signs someone is cheating; your husband may start working out because of concern for his health, or he may be feeling somewhat middle-aged and wants to reclaim his lost sexual desire. He may have forgotten to tell you about an errand he needs to run after work, and calls can be simple wrong numbers. If you suspect your man is cheating, ask him about it outright so your mind is at rest.

by Rachel

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